Please don’t worry. U have to be positive. I have passed through same stage when my 5 month old son got ADEM in India. He was diagnosed in 2 days although the doctor’s team started the treatment even before he was diagnosed. Brain MRI, Spine MRI, lumber puncture, all types of blood tests, urine tests, X rays, ECG were done. His white matter was infected. His both the eyes were squinted to the left side. He was hardly breathing. And was put on ventilator within 2 hrs of admission to Intensive care unit. He dint open the eyes for 4 days . The doctors said that the response is unpredictable. But I had the faith in God. And after 4 days he opened his eyes and smiled. I could not control my tears. Still that moment is floating in front of my eyes. Now my child will be 4 yrs in March. It took long time to recover from that although , still there is some imbalance while he walks or runs.
I told u my story just to mage u calm and have faith in God. It’s easier said than done but really, it’s positive thinking that will make the difference.
I hope your hubby is going through right line of treatment. My son was given high doses of steroids.
Please keep us posted. We are with you in this tough and very tough time. And it’s just a phase of life which will go away slowly.
I wish and I will pray that ur hubby recovers from this ADEM.hope ur happiness aND cheerful smiles come back very soon. Be bold , since u have 2.5 yrs young kid.
Wish u all the very best .